Sensual Physical Domination
by Ms. Faythe of www.bbwphonesexcalls.com
Every now and then, guys will ask me if I like to switch. Since I'm a dominant woman all the way through, the answer is technically no, because I always like to be the one who is in control of the situation.
On the other hand, I do sometimes enjoy a good struggle.
Don't get me wrong--I prefer guys who are submitting to me to be obedient. That's the whole ideal we're all going for, after all. But I don't mind mixing things up sometimes with some sensual domination of the more physical variety. Besides, I've never been afraid to put a guy in his place when it becomes necessary; if it means that I have to do it *literally* sometimes, then so be it. I've never been one to mind using my superior strength and size to take control. Sometimes, subs need that little reminder.
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Of course, that doesn't mean that the "struggle" has to be a matter of the guy being disobedient. Consensual game-playing is fun, too. While it's true that bondage is nice for scenes and for keeping your subs still, there's also something to be said for physically overpowering them as well. That sort of manhandling can both inspire respect and arouse at the same time. I can't think of anything that's better in that respect! Can you?
A little wrestling for control, a little physical reminder of who's in really in charge, can do wonderful things for a relationship. Like I said, bondage is fun (and may be more efficient), but pinning your partner underneath your body is far more sensual and intimate. In that way, some rough play between both parties can add another dimension of depth to a sensual dominant/submissive relationship. Nobody minds *that*, right?
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And while it's true that you'll never find me letting someone tie me up and do sadistic things to me, I do admit to getting a certain charge out of rough-housing that I don't get from other types of play. So if that's a reaction a man is looking to inspire, then playing more roughly than usual is the way to go!
I've also found that more guys are into this than some people might think. The general consensus is that subs (male ones, especially) are supposed to be weak and pathetic and so forth, so men who are interested may not ever mention it because they don't want to be considered anything less than a perfect sub. And so they secretly think about what it would be like to be physically overpowered by the kind of woman who likes that kind of play, but they never take it upon themselves to talk about it.
If this is the sort of thing you find yourself interested in, though, don't fall prey to that sort of thinking. Don't be afraid to ask me or any other Mistress about it. It's not something you want to spring on her without discussion, naturally--consent being most important and all--but you may be pleasantly surprised at the reaction your request gets. I know I'm certainly not the only Mistress out there who likes physically besting her subs sometimes!