Even Strict Mistresses Can Be Sensual Sometimes
by Ms. Ryan of www.alphafemdomphonesex.com
I am known to most as a woman who tends toward the strict end of the domination spectrum. I'm always fair rather than capricious, but I do have a definite way that I like things done, and I can be somewhat demanding about making sure that "way" is followed properly.
But while I am exacting, I am also a creature who enjoys doing what she wants. I wouldn't go so far as to call myself contrary exactly, but doing the same thing over and over can get rather dull, no matter how much you may normally like it.
Using Sensual Domination to Switch Things Up
So even though it's not the norm for me, it's also not terribly unusual for me to dip my toes into the sensual domination pool. I can't bear the thought of tedium, and anything can become tedious if you do it often enough. So switching things up is never a chore for me, especially since I enjoy a large number of fantasies, fetishes, and so forth.
I never like to let my subs grow too complacent, either. Mixing things up a bit keeps them off-balance and, therefore, more attentive and submissive to me.
The other reason that a strict Mistress like me indulges in more sensual activities from time to time is that it's sometimes what her submissive needs. Even the strongest and least affectionate of slaves will occasionally need some gentleness and the kind of intimacy that sensual domination offers. And when subs have been serving me well, I never mind giving back to them. That's how one builds an effective partnership, after all.
The Line Between Strict Domination and Sensual Domination
Besides, the line between "strict" domination and "sensual" domination is rather arbitrary. Many activities that Mistresses and subs engage in can fall into either category, depending on how intense the scene is, the mindset of the participants, and things of that nature. For example, a spanking can be gentle and titillating, or it can be more severe. And, truth be told, the very best spankings incorporate some of both, so the area between where "sensual domination" ends and "strict domination" begins is indeed hazy at best.
I would also be lying if I told you that I didn't love the way a slave who is used to a firmer hand responds when a softer touch is used. He's usually surprised at first and maybe even a little confused, unsure of what to expect. But as he relaxes and lets himself be drawn in by the sensual spell I'm weaving, all kinds of interesting things can happen....
So don't be fooled into think that just because a woman is often strict that she can't be sensual, too, if she wants to be or if the occasion calls for it. Sexuality is fluid in a number of ways, and this is just another one of them.
Oh, and don't ever be afraid to let your strict Mistress know if you'd like a more gentle touch sometimes. It's entirely up to her whether she indulges you or not, of course, but there's a very good possibility that she'll be up for the change of pace as well.